EPISTLES, FEASTS, AND SACRAMENTS
PARENTS’ GUIDE
Each year we send home a parents’ guide to help you continue your children’s Christian education at home and to reinforce what is being taught in Church School. This gives each family with small children some ideas for exciting activities for you and your children to enjoy together; it is not meant to be comprehensive or exclusive. Use your creativity! If you know the topic of the week, you can also think up some wonderful ways to “bring it home” from Church. This can start as simply as reviewing the lesson of the week (Can the children tell you the story?) in the car on the way home from Church and continue through the week in your daily devotions and prayers. This year it will be especially important to hold things together since it is our “catch-all” year with each of the major feasts (taught right before the feast), the epistles, and the sacraments. On “feast weeks” focus on celebrating the up-coming feast, on “epistle weeks” on the stories of the author and on memorizing the verse, and on “sacrament weeks” on role-playing the order of the service and on their own baptism, chrismation, etc.
It is very important even for the very young child to have daily prayers (Do you have a family icon corner? What about setting up one in his room?) and Bible (or Bible story) reading, maybe right after dinner or at bedtime. Do you say grace after each meal? Each day they can practice crossing themselves, lighting candles, burning incense, etc. And on Saturday night, in preparation for Liturgy the next day, what about a time of private confession to the Lord? You could even “pray the hours” on days when you are home: 7 AM (First Hour) thanking God for His light, 9 AM (3rd Hour) thanking Him for His Holy Spirit, 12 Noon (6th Hour) thanking Him for His crucifixion, and 3 PM (9th Hour) praying with the wise thief, “Remember me, O Lord, in thy Kingdom.” Very little time spent, but a habit begun.
There will be some memory work for the year. During the Epistle lessons, any student memorizing his verse for the week and reciting it during opening exercises the next week will get a prize; ages 3-7 have the same verse, ages 9-middle school a different verse. The verses appear below so you can work on them at home or in the car, my own favorite memorization time. There is a word puzzle for each of the memory verses for the 8-10 class. There will also be two big memorization projects for the students. In September we will work on the books of the New Testament with the older children; for younger children, let them just know the names of the authors: St. Paul, St. Peter, St. James, St. John, and St. Jude. Then, in January, we will try to learn the names (and for older children, dates) of the 12 (actually 13, if you count Pascha, which is the Feast of Feasts) Major Feasts. These will be recited when ready during opening exercises and prizes given. This would be great memory work to do in the car on the way to Liturgy!
Now, on to suggestions for particular weeks. Note that in the back of the booklet are a coloring or activity page for each lesson; in fact, by the end of the year, your child can have colored an entire set of icons for the major feasts.
MASTER SCHEDULE 2008-2009: Type in the dates for your current year!
Date |
Lesson/Activity |
Special Notes |
Opening Exercises |
September 7 14 21 28 |
Nativity of the Theotokos Elevation of the Cross Romans Romans |
Memory Work: New Testament Books |
Introductions:Wheel Life of Constantine Life of Paul Concentration Books |
October 5 12 19 26 |
I Corinthians I Corinthians II Corinthians Galatians |
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Journeys of Paul #1 Sosthenes Aquila and Priscilla Journeys of Paul #2 |
November 2 9 16 23 30 |
Ephesians Philippians Colossians Entry of the Theotokos I and II Thessalonians |
All Saints Party after Church School |
Tychicus Journeys of Paul #3 Epaphras, Luke Hannah Silas |
December 6 7 14 21 28 |
Tentative I and II Timothy Titus/Philemon Christmas Pageant Nativity of our Lord |
St. Nicholas Party
Parish and Nursing Home Painting of Holy Water jars |
Timothy Titus, Onesimus
Three Kings |
January 4 11 18 25 |
Theophany Hebrews Hebrews James |
Three Kings Party after Church School
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John the Baptist Council at Carthage Melchizadek Life of James |
February 1 8 15 22 |
Meeting of the Lord I Peter II Peter/Jude I,II,III John |
Memory Work: 12 Major Feasts
Make Homeless bags |
Concentration Life of Peter Jude Life of John |
March 1 8 15 22 29 |
The Revelation Baptism Chrismation Annunciation Confession |
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7 Churches “As Many…” Godparents “Christotokos” Prodigal Son |
April 5 12 19 26 |
Palm Sunday Pascha No Church School Eucharist/Liturgy |
Candle Decorating Workshop
Pascha! Prosphora Workshop |
Donkeys Joseph of Arimathea
“Trisagion” |
May 3 10 15-17 17 24 31 |
Marriage Orders Camping Trip ages 6-12 No Church School Ascension Pentecost |
Theme: Journeys of St. Paul
Make “Kneel-upons” Birthday Cake for the Church |
“Isaiah’s Dance” Feastcolor Jeopardy
OCMC Holy Spirit/Trinity |
June 7 14 20 21 |
Holy Unction Requiem/Burial Play Rehearsal Closing Exercises |
Koliva Workshop After vespers, with overnight Play performance |
Miracles of Jesus Lazarus
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August 2 3-7 9 |
Transfiguration Vacation Bible School? Dormition |
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Moses and Elijah
Doubting Thomas |
NATIVITY OF THE THEOTOKOS
Here we begin the Church School year, just before the first feast of the new year.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless all babies, born and unborn, as you blessed Joachim and Anna with the baby Mary.
Nativity of the Theotokos Cryptogram
Decode the message below to learn an important fact about this feast!
Movable Feasts
Glue to a piece of poster board and cut out. Attach to center of feast wheel with a brad. Then color and add the feasts on the next page. You could do this all at once, or ceremonially when we study that feast as the year progresses.
PICTURES FOR FEAST WHEEL
ELEVATION OF THE CROSS
Home Activities:
Prayer: Before thy cross…
EPISTLES: ROMANS
We’re now beginning the epistles.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, make me a useful member of your body.
What does it say?
Romans 7:19
Do you know them all for our memory work?
PAUL WRITING A LETTER
NAME THE PARTS OF THE BODY
ROMANS
Our theme here is obeying the civil authorities.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, we pray for all civil authorities and government officials, that they may rule our country wisely and in thy ways.
Romans 11:17
Unscramble the tiles to reveal a message from St. Paul
THE GREAT CITY OF ROME, CAPITAL OF THE EMPIRE
I CORINTHIANS
Now we focus on running the race of life.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, give me strength and health to run the race of life as did thy saints.
MEMORY VERSE FOR FIRST CORINTHIANS
PAUL WITH AQUILA AND PRISCILLA IN CORINTH
OLYMPIC MEDALIST
I CORINTHIANS
This week we work on caring and sharing.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, let me love my neighbor today, as You love me.
First Corinthians 12:14
Paul wrote in Greek to the Greek-speaking city of Corinth. Solve this cryptogram with Greek letters to find your memory verse:
Many years ago three hungry soldiers were returning home from the wars. One day, as they came out of the forest, they saw a small village. Along the village lane they saw three shops: there was a bakery, a carpenter's shop and a tailor's shop.
The eldest of the three soldiers, the sergeant, told the soldiers to be cheerful. He was sure the kind people of the village would share their dinner with them. The soldiers knew their sergeant was a wise man. They were not worried. They knew he was right and they would soon have something to eat.
The sergeant knocked on the first door. It was the tailor's shop. The door was opened and a woman stood before them. "Can I help you?" she asked.
The soldiers replied, "Can you spare us some food? We have not eaten for some time and we are still far from home."
The woman told them that the harvest had been bad and that she had no food to spare.
The soldiers turned to the next door. They hoped that they would have better luck there. But instead, the baker's wife told them she was sorry to see them hungry but that everyone had to look out for himself in days like these.
Even in the third shop, they were turned away by the carpenter. And he told them that he did not believe in sharing.
"What selfish people these are!" said the sergeant. "They do not know how to share. We must teach these people a lesson."
"Shall we steal from them?" asked the soldiers.
"No, no. We shall only teach these people how to make "stone soup."
Soon they built a fire in the middle of the lane. They hung their kettle over the fire and filled it with water. They gathered some stones, washed them and put them in the water. Then the sergeant stirred the water, so that the stones rattled in the pot. He took a taste of the new soup and said, "This is good but some potatoes would surely bring out the flavor of the stones."
Just then the baker said that there were a few potatoes in his shop. He would run and get them.
"Oh, thank you. And bring a bowl so that you may join in our dinner," called the sergeant.
Once the potatoes had been added to the soup, the soup was tasted again. This time one of the soldiers thought a carrot and some onions might make the soup more colorful. The tailor ran at once to get them and when he returned he had even found some salt to add to the pot. He was delighted as he added his offerings to the soup. He too was asked to join them for dinner.
"Now," said the soldiers, "we shall have the final taste. Mmm-it is good, but perhaps a piece of meat would make it extra good."
The carpenter scratched his beard and thought. Then he remembered a piece of meat he had been saving for a special dinner. He went back to his shop and returned with the meat.
When the "stone soup" was ready, it was so good, that the carpenter asked for the recipe.
The sergeant answered by saying, "You have fine stones to cook with in this village. But the real secret of good stone soup is the sharing that everyone does to make it good."
As they sat together and enjoyed their meal they knew that the soldiers and their wise sergeant had taught them a lesson about sharing. It was a lesson they would never forget.
Have you made any stone soup lately?
I CORINTHIANS
(Optional lesson – if you need it to fill in the year)
This week we focus on Christ crucified.
Home Activities:
Prayer: “Before Thy Cross…”
Use this puzzle to work on the memory verse with older children:
II CORINTHIANS
Home Activities:
Prayer: Let my light shine in the world with your holy light.
2 CORINTHIANS 9:7
JESUS, THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD
GALATIANS
We focus today on the fruit of the spirit.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, give me the fruit of your Spirit.
GALATIANS 6:7
THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
EPHESIANS
Here we focus on the armor of God.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, help me to put on your armor and to stand strong in your strength.
EPHESIANS 3:19
Unscramble the tiles to reveal a message from St. Paul:
PAUL IN EPHESUS
PHILIPPIANS
Our Philippians lesson focuses on prayer.
Home activities:
We also begin Advent shortly. Of course, this is a fast period. But, there are so many fun Advent activities to prepare for Nativity that we almost forget we are fasting! Make a Jesse tree with ornaments representing the Old Testament saints who went before our Lord; of course, review a story each night as you add your ornament. Make an Advent Calendar: color the icon of the Nativity, glue it on heavy paper, cut out windows, glue a piece of paper behind it and add a sticker for each window. And, an Advent wreath always adds some depth; light a candle each Saturday night during your prayers of preparation for Liturgy.
PHILIPPIANS 2:3
PAUL AND SILAS IN PHILIPPI
COLOSSIANS
Our theme this week is forgiveness.
Home Activities:
Pray the Lord’s Prayer each day.
COLOSSIANS 3:23
Unscramble each of the clue words.
Take the letters that appear inboxes and unscramble them for the final message from the next verse.
PRESENTATION OF THE VIRGIN
Home Activities:
Prayer: Pray for us, Mary, to your son Jesus.
I AND II THESSALONIANS
Our lesson this week will focus on giving thanks to God.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, help us to remember to thank you every day of our lives.
Word Puzzle: Unscramble each word to make our memory verse for this week.
IN EVERYTHING GIVE THANKS!
I AND II TIMOTHY
We are concentrating this week on Jesus as a shepherd.
Home Activities:
This is also St.Nicholas week.
Prayer: Lord, bless him who blesses us.
II TIMOTHY 2:5
TIMOTHY WITH HIS MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER
TITUS AND PHILEMON
This week we will be slaves.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless with freedom all those held in slavery around the world.
TITUS 2:15
Unscramble the letters in the circle boxes to find the second half of the verse:
THE NATIVITY OF OUR LORD
Finally, the Nativity of Christ! There is so much to do!
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, may you come in our hearts as you came on earth as a little child.
The concept of 12 days of Christmas dates back to approximately 350 A.D. when December 25th was proclaimed the date to celebrate Jesus’ birth. The first recorded reference to the twelve days of Christmas was noted in the year 567 A.D. when the Council of Tours declared that the 12 days between Christmas and Theophany were to be a festive period.
The song “The 12 Days of Christmas” has its origin in the 16th century and was written in England as a creative means to teach children about their faith during a time when expressing beliefs outside the Church of England was forbidden. The generous benefactor referred to in the song is God, our Heavenly Father. Each of his gifts has religious significance.
THEOPHANY
Home Activities:
Prayer: May the Lord who rose from the waters of baptism bless us all with His Holy Spirit.
TROPARION FOR THEOPHANY
HEBREWS
Our theme this week is angels.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, send my guardian angel to watch over me each day.
HEBREWS 4:12
What does God have to say about His word?
DANIEL IN THE LION’S DEN
THE ARCHANGEL MICHAEL
HEBREWS
This week we concentrate on faith and hope.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, may we today have the great faith of your servants in the past.
HEBREWS 7:17
NOAH
ABRAHAM
JOSEPH WELCOMES HIS BROTHERS
MOSES AT THE RED SEA
JOSHUA AT JERICHO
SAMSON DESTROYS THE TEMPLE OF THE FALSE GODS
DAVID AND GOLIATH
JAMES
With James we concentrate on the tongue.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Forgive me for the acts of my mighty tongue and help me to control it better tomorrow.
JAMES 4:1
Unscramble the words of the verse to find God’s answer in James 4:8.
PINOCCHIO IS SAVED
THE MEETING OF THE LORD
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless each child brought to you as Simeon and Anna were blessed by you as a child.
I PETER
Home Activities
Prayer: Lord, help me to build my life on You as my rock.
I PETER 1:25
Put the tiles in order to read your verse:
PETER WAS A FISHERMAN
II PETER AND JUDE
We focus today on the Second Coming.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, help me to serve you by serving others.
I,II, III JOHN
I John is called the love book for good reason.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, help me to show God’s love to others this week and every week.
I JOHN 1:1
THE REVELATION
The Revelation is a difficult book.
Home activities:
Prayer: Lord, help me to listen when you knock.
THE REVELATION 4:8
Unscramble each of the words of the first half of the verse. Transfer the letters to the same numbered box below to find out what they said!
JESUS KNOCKING AT THE DOOR
BAPTISM
We now enter the lessons on the sacraments, beginning with baptism.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, make my life new each day with the ongoing miracle of baptism with You.
We are also entering Lent. Review fasting with your children; some may be too young to fast fully but still can understand the concept. Come to as many Lenten services as you can.
Make an egg tree: blow out eggs for several weeks before Lent and let them drain and dry. Then decorate them as prayer requests – as members of your family, friends, travelers by land, sea, and air, your government, etc. – one for each day of Lent. As you add the egg to the tree, pray for the person or intention; your intercessory prayers will lengthen as the 40 days continue.
CHRISMATION
Home activities:
Prayer: Lord, fill me with the fire of your Holy Spirit, given to me at my chrismation.
CHRISMATION CROSSWORD
Across
2. The word spoken during anointing
3. The holy oil
5. Old Testament people filled with the Holy Spirit
6. Cutting of the hair
7. The Comforter, the Spirit of Truth
Down
1. Ceremonial walk around the altar
2. Old Testament hero whose strength was in his hair
4. Anointing with oil
5. Feast celebrating the descent of the Holy Spirit
ANNUNCIATION
We now arrive at the feast of the Annunciation.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, help me to do thy will as did Mary, your mother.
CONFESSION
Confession is not terribly fun, but very important.
Home activities:
Prayer: Pray the Lord’s prayer, with special emphasis on “Forgive us our sins…”
What did the Prodigal Son finally decide?
PALM SUNDAY
We study the feast of Palm Sunday the week before so we can prepare to celebrate it.
Home activities:
Prayer: Lord, make us as bold as the children on Palm Sunday to shout your praises.
PASCHA
This week we prepare for Pascha.
Home activities:
Prayer: Lord Jesus Christ, who died for my sins and rose from the dead, have mercy on me.
Across
2. Gave Jesus his own new tomb
6. Disciple who denied Jesus three times
8. Ancestor of Jesus who danced before the ark
11. City where Jesus was arrested
12. Jewish Feast Jesus was celebrating
14. Hill where Jesus was Crucified
16. Inspired prophet named in Canon
Down
1. He carried Jesus's cross
3. Roman governor who condemned Jesus
4. Garden where Jesus prayed
5. High priest who condemned Jesus
7. Criminal chosen by the crowd
9. Jewish King of Galilee
10. Only Disciple at the cross
11. His sermon is read on Pascha
13. Prophet who spent three days in a fish
15. Disciple who betrayed Jesus
DIVINE LITURGY AND EUCHARIST
Divine Liturgy and the Eucharist –what a full lesson this week!
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless us with the miracle of your body and blood, this week and every week.
DIVINE LITURGY MATCHING GAME (These are in order, if you want to do flash cards)
Proskomedia We receive the body and blood of Jesus
Blessed is the Kingdom Procession with the Gospel book to the altar
Litany Readings from the letters of Paul, Peter, John, James, or Jude
Troparia and Kontakia The Three Holies remind us of the Trinity
Emperor’s Song Priest offers the bread and wine to God with thanksgiving
Little Entrance We pray the prayer taught to us by Jesus
Trisagion We pray for all the world’s needs.
Prokimenon We sing a song to Mary, the Theotokos
Epistle The entire Church gathered on a plate and prayed for
Gospel We affirm our faith
Great Entrance Theme songs of the day, sung in one of eight tones
Creed Old Testament Verses
Anaphora The priest thanks God and blesses us with the cross
Megalynarion Song written by Justinian summarizing the Bible’s teaching about Jesus
Lord’s Prayer Readings from the works of Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John
Eucharist We’re invited to a journey into God’s kingdom
Benediction Procession with the bread and wine while singing Cherubic Hymn
MARRIAGE
We now study the sacrament of marriage.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless all married couples and their families.
Unscramble the tiles to reveal the wedding Prokimenon.
ABRAHAM AND SARAH
REBECCA TRAVELS TO ISAAC
RACHEL, JACOB’S BELOVED
RUTH AND BOAZ
ZACHARIAS AND ELIZABETH
THE WEDDING AT CANA
ORDERS
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, thank you for the ministers you have given to help me.
Matching Game
Match the role, clothing, or ceremony with the appropriate “order”; there is often more than one match for each:
Governing diocese
Deacon Chasuble
Dalmatic
Pastoral staff
Priest’s helper during services
Mantle
Priest Administers the sacrament of ordination
Mitre
Songs of marriage service are sung during ordination
Orarion
Stole
Bishop Father of a local church
Prayer at ordination remembers St. Stephen
Administers all sacraments except ordination
Biretta
Sticharion
ASCENSION
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, may I remember always that You are with me always.
What did Jesus say at the Ascension?
Unscramble the command of Jesus. Use the numbered letters to discover His promise.
PENTECOST
Home Activities:
Prayer: “O Heavenly King…”
What prayer do we pray daily to the Holy Spirit? Decode the puzzle to find out:
HOLY UNCTION
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless all those who are sick and heal them, especially (is there anyone you know who is sick?).
JAMES 5:14,15
What does the Lord command us to do in the Epistle of James?
REQUIEM
Requiem is a hard topic for young children.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, bless the souls of those who have gone to be with you in heaven and may their memory be eternal. Finish by singing “Memory Eternal”.
What is the service called?
What is it called in Slavonic?
What do we hold?
What food do we make?
Who did Jesus raise from the dead?
What’s the shortest verse in the Bible?
The “falling asleep” of Mary is called what?
How do we know there is life after death?
What do we sing?
Unscramble each of the clue words.
Take the letters that appear in circle boxes and unscramble them for the final message.
Write here the names of people who have died that you wish to remember in your prayers.
TRANSFIGURATION
We do this lesson a week before the feast itself in August, so use these activities to prepare for the feast.
Home Activities:
Prayer: Lord, give me the strength to see lots of your light.
DORMITION
Dormition falls in mid-August. Again, we study this feast the week before the feast to prepare for the celebration.
Prayer: Lord, fill me with the fragrant love of your mother, Mary.